Stop Saying the “F” Word (No, Not That “F” Word)
Hello, Butterfly! (Please read this one until the end, especially if you have daughters…)
Have you ever wondered if you have mis-diagnosed your Comfort Zone as CONFIDENCE?
Sometimes you get stuck in your comfort zone and call it CONFIDENCE because you know how to maneuver that space, easily and effortlessly. It feels controllable, manageable and safe.
Don’t get me wrong…there’s nothing wrong with feeling safe, HOWEVER…your PURPOSE…the CALL that’s on your life is NEVER within the confines of your comfort zone.
Your brain was designed to keep you safe so the key is to go from feeling uncomfortable in your comfort zone to comfortable in the uncomfortable!
You were NOT created to make your comfort zone your permanent dwelling place.
When you settle for a life of comfort, you say the “F” word! That’s right…“I’m FINE!” rolls off of your tongue and entices you into a mediocre life. Choosing to settle for the “F” word (“I’m FINE”) leads to a life disappointment, distraction, and disillusionment.
You were not created for FINE! Remember that the DNA of the butterfly is inside of the caterpillar. Extraordinary is often wrapped in the ordinary but ordinary is only temporary.
The DNA of the butterfly is inside of the caterpillar. When the caterpillar goes into the cocoon, enzymes are released that liquify her into what is called, “pupa soup”. The outer encasement of the inch worm has to be literally melted away so that the DNA of the butterfly can be released, reformed and revealed to the world. Just like the butterfly, the DNA of your purpose is inside of you.
You MUST let go of the ordinary woman who was created by fears, failures and imperfections so that the woman that God created you to be can be released, reformed and revealed to the world.
Did you know that you were created for CONFIDENCE! In fact, you were created WITH confidence.
Confidence is not something you have to go out and get…it’s inside of you! It may be buried underneath layers and layers of conditioning, negative self-talk and defining yourself by your failures BUT confidence is inside of you!
If you have daughters, just imagine how great it would feel to know that you are leading the way for your girls. She will follow your lead. The more confident you are, the more confident she will be.
Can you imagine how great it would feel to trust yourself and stop beating yourself up with self-doubt?
OMG…imagine making decisions without 2nd-guessing yourself or looking for approval from someone else…
Just think how great it would feel to actually set a goal and accomplish it without sabotaging yourself???
It’s possible! It really is! If you are done settling for FINE and you are ready to kick things up a notch, click this link and check out this new course that I designed with you in mind.
This is your moment in time…no more waiting and no more hesitating! No more settling for FINE!
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All My Love,